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Day 4730: Repairs

I thought about repairs, small and large, when I saw this sign yesterday.

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Maybe that’s the best we can do: make small repairs while hoping that this world is not beyond repair.

Do you see repairs in my other images for today?

©️ Ann Koplow, 2025

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I am looking forward to future repairs as my son returns to Massachusetts tomorrow for the holidays!

Here’s what I find when I search for “repairs” on YouTube.

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What are your thoughts and feelings about these repairs?

Thanks to all who are here for this repairs post, including YOU!

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Day 4724: Lessons learned

One of my lessons learned is that I should set my alarm on a Monday lest I oversleep, but I forgot to do that last night.

Another lesson learned is that I hate the feeling that muscle relaxants and similar drugs give me, because of my hospital experiences when I was young

Another one of my lessons learned is that I can get a blog post out every day, no matter what.

Do you see lessons learned in my images for today?

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Another lesson learned is that I don’t have to know everything, including what the holidays of the day are.

Here’s what I find when I search YouTube for “lessons learned”.

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Here are lessons learned about other people’s anger.

What are your lessons learned?

Another lesson I’ve learned is to be grateful for wonderful people in my life, including you! 

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Day 4715: Modulation

I like the word “modulation” because it relates to change AND music.

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The music I love always has interesting modulation (key changes) and I hope the songs I write will too.

I also hope to see modulation in the world’s leadership very soon.

Do you see modulation in my images for today?

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My song “I Don’t Wanna Be Late (Don’t Wanna Be Early Either)” has MANY modulations.

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I haven’t figured out how to modulate that tune so that it’s ready for release on Spotify, Apple Music, etc. But I know that it might be the most memorable part of my live performances.

Today, I’ll be going for a modulation of my haircut and a major modulation in my music-production process.

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Thanks to all who are here for this modulation blog post, including YOU!

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Day 4713: Stories

Somebody in yesterday’s Coping and Healing group said they wished they had been taught the real story of Thanksgiving when they were in school. In the same group, people also shared stories of their favorite memories of Thanksgiving.

The Thanksgiving stories I told included leaving after the meal to volunteer at a suicide hotline for eight hours, so I could listen to other people’s stories.

What stories do you see in my images for today?

I notice some conflicting stories there; do you?

I keep trying to get my musical stories out there while also staying in the moment.

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I look forward to any stories you choose to share in the comments section, below.

I give thanks for all who are here for my daily stories, including YOU!

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Day 4701: Shameless

Yesterday, when I was interviewed by Sue Marriott for the Therapist Uncensored podcast, we talked about my song “Shameless Appeals for Applause” and how I was shameless.

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I don’t usually think of myself as shameless because I am often fighting shame — putting myself out there despite the shame I can easily feel about that.

As I mentioned to Sue during the interview yesterday, when I think of shameless people, it’s usually those narcissistic people who abuse power and harm others. But now I have another association with shameless — it’s working towards feeling less shame so you can put your authentic self out there.

I’m hoping to feel shameless when that podcast becomes available, probably in January.

My new definition of “shameless” also includes forgiving yourself for mistakes (instead of shaming yourself for them).

For example, I forgot to ask my traditional last-question-of-the-day on social media last night. As my shameless husband Michael likes to say, “No harm, no foul.”

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I feel shameless about sharing the rest of my images for today.

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I’m am shameless enough to say that I am NOT the opposite of talented.

I am so thankful for all who are here for this shameless post, including YOU!

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Day 4700: I’m doing a podcast before I feel ready

Today, I am going to be interviewed by Sue Marriott for the podcast Therapist Uncensored and I don’t feel ready. That relates to one of my songs (which I assume we’ll discuss), I Left the House Before I Felt Ready.

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When I am doing something new, I don’t feel ready, certain, or sure. But I do it anyway, because I’m probably more ready than I realize.

Instead of getting ready for the podcast (eeek!), I’m ready enough to share my images for today. Ready or not, here they come!

©️ Ann Koplow, 2018

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Somehow, the Daily Bitch always seems ready.

Thanks to all who help me feel ready enough for anything, including YOU!

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Day 4697: What’s the problem

When I was working at the hospital yesterday having many problems with the Epic computer system, I saw this sign:

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What’s the problem? The problem is that problems with Epic are getting in the way of my getting my work done and that is a trigger for me.

What’s the problem with using music to explain psychological problems?

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In my Coping and Healing group yesterday, one of the members said they found my Triggers song very helpful, so I had no problem singing it to the group.

If you have a problem understanding the lyrics “certain movements of eyes” in that song, it refers to EMDR therapy. Because I’ve been having so many problems with technology and I want no problems with my appearance on the Therapist Uncensored podcast this Friday, I have scheduled some EMDR sessions with my therapist.

In my work, I don’t like focusing on problems; I focus on solutions. Therefore, “What’s the problem?” is a question I rarely ask. Nevertheless, what’s the problem with my images for today?

I don’t have a problem with the results of an online personality test matching me with these fictional characters.

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What’s the problem with you leaving a comment, below?

Thanks to all who are here for this what’s-the-problem post, including YOU!

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Day 4696: Secure Relating

In order to prepare for my appearance on the fabulous podcast Therapist Uncensored, I am reading the book Secure Relating by the podcast hosts.

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I am very secure recommending that book to everyone, including my patients.

Do you see secure relating in my other images for today?

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Here’s what I find when I search for “secure relating” on YouTube.

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When I appear on the podcast this Friday, I’m going to use secure relating to ask how the co-hosts used this version of my song “Everybody’s Somebody’s Asshole” for some of their in-person events.

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I look forward to secure relating in the comments section, below.

Thanks to all who showed up for secure relating today, including YOU!

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Day 4694: Scammed!

Even though I am very cautious and (I thought!) clever about scams and even though I actually wrote a blog post about scams this week, I got scammed yesterday.

While I was in the midst of managing the release of my single “Artificial Intelligence” and many problems at work, I wasn’t intelligent enough to not be scammed by a very convincing and incredibly well-timed email about my mobile phone payment. After I entered a second credit card number (but NOT my social security number, thank goodness), I suspected I had been scammed.

I was waiting to get callbacks from my mobile phone carrier and my bank to corroborate and report that I had been scammed as my online Coping and Healing group was about to begin. I hoped the group members didn’t feel scammed when I told them I was on an important call and to start the group without me.

The helpful rep from my mobile phone carrier researched the history of emails to me and we both agreed I had been scammed. The nice rep from my bank immediately told me she had also been scammed, which made me feel better about being scammed and having to cancel two credit cards.

When I rejoined the group, I told them I had been scammed. Some members shared how that helped them feel less shame about being scammed in the past.

Then, in EMDR therapy, I tried to release all my shame and fears about being scammed.

Here are the images I gathered on the day I was scammed.

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Yes, I am writing about being scammed on Dunce Day.

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Who knew that dunce caps were a scam?

Here’s what I find when I search for “scammed” on YouTube.

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Thanks to all who are here for this scammed blog post, including YOU!

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Day 4693: Released

My new single Artificial Intelligence is released!

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It is released on Spotify,

https://open.spotify.com/track/5Wr6gOEaSkMTxQAS5kL1Om

… on Apple Music,

… and on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/MNkqnmc1BYs?si=Hi55O6fgQfxNrIwL

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I wish I could be released from my future-oriented concerns about how many people will listen to it and just appreciate the fact that it is released!

When I write a sentence like that one, I am released from worries about the future and regrets about the past.

Now it’s time for my other images to be released into this blog post.

All those responses look like scams.
I am released from any need to comment on today’s observances.
I am released from taking anything too seriously, including meditating.

Thanks to all who are here for this released blog post, including YOU!!

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