Monthly Archives: October 2025

Day 4686: The Breaks

Recently I dropped and broke the lid of a beautiful ceramic box a patient made for me many years ago. When I glued the break together, I thought about how things can be strongest at the broken and mended parts.

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I have many scars from breaks and now that lid with my name has one, too.

Here’s a quote from Ernest Hemingway about breaks:

Years ago, a fellow social worker told my Coping and Healing group that she reframed her regret about breaking a prized possession by thinking it was always broken. We wrote “the vase was always broken” on a large list of “What Helps” in my old office.

I just took a break from this blog by looking for a photo of that and I couldn’t find it. However, I did find this photo of an old “What Helps” list.

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Them’s the breaks!

I’d like to think I get breaks from worry when I sleep, but last night I had an anxiety dream about work. Today, I’m going to take a break from my usual work appearance by wearing this elaborate Halloween costume:

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Are there any breaks in my other images for today?

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Here’s what I find when I search for “breaks” on YouTube:

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Thanks to Dr. Steven Hayes, Ernest Hemingway, all my patients, social workers and other healers, cool cats everywhere, and all who are here for these breaks, including YOU!

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Day 4685: Adjustments

After making some adjustments to my answers, I submitted the required information to the Therapist Uncensored podcast yesterday.

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Then, I exchanged some shower parts that needed adjustments …

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… and returned to a chiropractor to get adjustments. We’re hoping those adjustments will relieve the annoying clicking noises in my head I’ve been adjusting to for two years.

Today, I will discuss adjustments to cognitive distortions with my group members.

Do you see adjustments in my images for today?

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If I were to make adjustments to that list, I might reconsider having Buy a Donut Day on the same day as Sugar Addiction Awareness Day.

I made many adjustments to my song “Artificial Intelligence” before submitting it for an upcoming release on November 7; however, none of the adjustments are artificial. Here is my first, pre-adjustments recording of “Artificial Intelligence” last year on YouTube:

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Thanks to all who are here for these adjustments today, including YOU!

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Day 4684: Catching up

I’ve got a lot of catching up to do today, including completing the information for my upcoming appearance on the podcast Therapist Uncensored.

In case you need catching up with my personal saga as told through this daily blog, I often experience waves of different feelings (from joy to dread) when I am doing something new.

Also, many people I know are deliberately NOT catching up with the news because they just want to know, “Who is going to stand up to the chaos and injustice?”

Do you see catching up in my images for today?

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I am always cat-ching up to our cats, no matter what day it is.

Let’s do some catching up on great animation together.

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Thanks to all who are catching up with this blog today, including YOU!

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Day 4683: Waves

Hello! 👋

Welcome to my blog post about waves.

Last night, as I was waiting for waves of sleep, I heard a helpful tale comparing thoughts to waves 🌊.

👋 The story about waves starts at 3:00.

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Who else finds that the story about waves 🌊 brings waves of peace and acceptance?

Are you ready for my other images for this waves post?

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I wonder what kinds of waves there are on other planets.

👋 Thanks to all who are here for this waves post, including YOU!

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Day 4682: Avoid

Here and now, I can’t help noticing that the word “avoid” including “a void.”

This weekend, I tried to avoid (1) any news that would cause me despair and (2) harsh judgment.

I shall not avoid sharing my images for today’s blog post.

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I’ve been focusing on promoting my music, so I’m not going to avoid any opportunity to share one of my original songs (thanks, Mark…with a K).

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At this time of year, I can’t avoid my triggers of the cold and the dark.

Thanks to all who do not avoid my blog, including YOU!

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Day 4681: Little known facts

Ready for some little known facts?

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Do you see little known facts in my other images for today?

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Here are some more little known facts:

October 26 was my late parents’ wedding anniversary.

I’ve started writing two new songs today — “I’d Rather Be With You Than Be Alone” and “ChatGPT Thinks I’m Great.”

Here’s what I find when I search for “Little Known Facts” on YouTube:

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I hope it is not a little known fact that I am very grateful for YOU!

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Day 4680: What I’m Going To Do Today

This is what I’m going to do today:

  • Talk to people I love.
  • Solve word puzzles.
  • Take Joan our cat out for a walk.
  • Let Joan take me for a walk.
  • Go food shopping with my husband Michael.
  • Watch a Man from U.N.C.L.E. movie that was on Turner Classic Movies (!) last week.
  • Fill out the form for my appearance on the Therapist Uncensored podcast.
  • Read the book Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World.
  • Listen to Patti Smith’s audiobook Just Kids.
  • Work on my new song “What’s Wrong With Looking Older.”
  • Eat more chocolates from the Godiva Collection given to me by a patient.
  • Ask some questions on social media.
  • Try to promote my music.
  • Have a wonderful meal at a local Vietnamese Restaurant
  • Watch an episode of Supervet or Murderbot with Michael.
  • Take photos for tomorrow’s blog.

This is what I’m NOT going to do today;

  • Watch the news.
  • Worry.

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Blogging!

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What I’m going to do on World Pasta Day is eat one of the all-time great noodle dishes at that Vietnamese restaurant.

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What I’m going to do today also includes sharing one of my songs on social media. Because I’m going to leave the house before I feel ready, I’ll share this one:

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Thanks to all who actually care about what I’m going to do today, including YOU!

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Day 4679: National Crazy Day

With all the crazy things going on in my nation, I am not surprised that today is National Crazy Day.

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I don’t know if I can enjoy the day when those in charge of the nation are so unhinged and crazy.

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Here are the rest of my images for National Crazy Day.

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On National Crazy Day, I’m going to just be myself and share this interview with Conan O’Brien and Jackie Chan, whom I’m crazy about.

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Thanks to all who are here for this National Crazy Day post, including YOU!

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Day 4678: Completely Wrong

Earlier this week, I was completely wrong about something. These days, when I’m completely wrong, I quickly admit it and forgive myself.

There are so many things going on in my country and the world that seem completely wrong. I don’t expect things to ever be completely right but could we figure out a way to make them less completely wrong?

Do you see anything completely wrong in my images for today?

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Years ago, I wanted to slap an irritating co-worker who was completely wrong and overconfident about that. Instead, I wrote my first-ever original song and is it completely wrong for me to share that now?

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Thanks to everyone who is here for this completely wrong blog post, including YOU!

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Day 4677: Enough

Yesterday, in my Coping and Healing Group, we did enough, including this mindfulness exercise:

I also did that “enough” mindfulness exercise last night right before I performed my original songs “Artificial Intelligence” and “Don’t Kill Yourself” for my fellow social workers at the hospital. They let me know that wasn’t enough by holding up cell phones until I did this encore.

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Because there is enough misunderstanding in this world, that is not a video from last night — that’s from the recording of my live album “The Singing Therapist Live at the Lilypad!”

I have been working hard to promote my music but I don’t know if it’s enough.

Enough? Enough for what? Enough to make me happy? Enough to make others happy?

I think it’s enough to remember this …

… and this:

I think that the rest of images for today will be enough.

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I don’t know if anything is ever enough for the Daily Bitch.

Thanks to everyone who showed up for this post and remember — you are enough!

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