Posts Tagged With: connections

Day 4548: No Kings

I went to two No Kings protests in Massachusetts yesterday that were very well attended, despite the rain.

Here is a quote from an Axios article about yesterday’s No Kings protests throughout the USA:

At both No Kings protests I attended we stood at intersections with our signs and there was so much horn honking in solidarity that it was difficult for people to hear my protest song “You Don’t Scare Me.” No kings and no noise will ever stop me; people who could hear my song liked it and even sang along. Somebody at my second No Kings protest told me, “I asked AI to write a protest song last night and it was pretty good but yours is better!”

Here are the images I collected on No Kings Saturday.

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Here’s what I find when I search for “No Kings“ on YouTube:

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Thanks to all who are here for this No Kings blog post, including YOU!

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Day 4302: Just like everyone else

Just like everyone else, I want to be free, happy, healthy, and fulfilled.

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Just like The Daily Bitch, I’m a little short of breath as I’m recovering from my heart-related surgery.

Just like everyone else, I’m hoping to connect authentically with others here and now.

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Just like everyone else, I appreciate free thought and the permission to have a moment of frustration scream.

Here’s what I find when I search for “just like everyone else” on YouTube:

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Just like everyone else, I want to belong AND to remain unique.

Just like everyone else, I want to connect with wonderful people like YOU!

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Day 4210: Perfect

As a recovering perfectionist, I try to let go of expecting myself or others to be perfect. And yet, each moment is perfect in its own way.

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When I search for “perfect” on YouTube I find this …

… and this:

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Here’s a perfect ending for today’s “perfect” post:

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Day 4026: Favorite words

Last night, I asked a question about favorite words.

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My favorite words include synchronicity, community, connection, love, and wisdom. Do you see any favorite words in my other images for today?

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One of my favorite words is “people.”

People, I find this when I search for “favorite words” on YouTube …

…. and this:

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In conclusion, here are some more favorite words.

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Day 3998: People

Hello, people!

As a people person, I could tell you what I think about people, but I’d rather start out with quotes about people from other people.

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The Daily Bitch also has something to say about people.

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Here’s how people on Twitter/x responded to two questions I asked yesterday:

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People who regularly read this blog might expect a few more images from me, so here they are.

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I don’t know about you people, but I’m going to have some chocolate ice cream today. And here’s a beautiful song about people (with violins):

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Thanks to Barbra and all the wonderful people out there, including YOU!

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Day 3777: Who do you believe in?

Last night, I asked this question on Twitter:

That question was inspired, I believe, by my meeting Carmen (who believe it or not, shares the birthday of Groundhog Day with me!) and her husband Manny yesterday on the Viking River Tour.

Manny and I discovered that we both loved the song “I Believe in You” from How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying and we both believed in our ability to sing it together at the dinner table.

I believe in people’s ability to connect, learn, and grow despite suspicions and fear about difference, and I saw that in a “stumble stone” on a street in the German city of Koblenz.

I believe in The Guardian’s ability to describe stumble stones.

I believe in my ability to put together all the images I collected yesterday to create my 3777th consecutive daily blog.

I believe in the Daily Bitch’s ability to believe in herself.

Who do you believe in? I believe in YOU.

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Day 3745: Difficult Times

In difficult times,

  • realize that you are not alone,
  • be especially kind to yourself,
  • connect with people you love,
  • do things that comfort you,
  • try to avoid difficult people,
  • remember that you have made it through other difficult times before, and
  • breathe.

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This blog post is dedicated to everyone who is going through difficult times.

The Daily Bitch and my inner bitch have helped me through many difficult times.

Here’s what I find when I search for “difficult times” on YouTube.

Thanks to all who deal with difficult times, including YOU.

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Day 3539: Aha moments

I’ve had many aha moments in my life, including:

  • life is short, so don’t waste any of it,
  • nature sustains us and we better do our best to sustain it,
  • most people are mostly good,
  • all healing is mutual, so self care is never selfish,
  • we can’t control anybody’s behavior except our own,
  • we are all so caught up in our own experience that it takes hard work to understand and communicate effectively with others,
  • people feel alone sometimes but no one is alone,
  • repressed and disowned feelings will surface eventually,
  • we all fear people who seem different from us until we open ourselves up to how connected we are,
  • we unconsciously absorb biases from our cultures and our families so we need to be aware of them and challenge them constantly,
  • it hurts to lose someone, even those I don’t know (like Queen Elizabeth),
  • it’s not so much a matter of where you are but who you are with, and
  • the best place to be is the here and now.

Aha! I just found this definition of “aha moments”:

Do you see any aha moments in my images for today?

Today is my late father’s birthday and I’m very grateful I shared so many aha moments with him before he died.

Several people on Twitter mentioned this song in response to my question about aha moments:

Thanks to all who help me blog daily about my aha moments, including YOU.

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Day 3175: Not the only one

As a group therapist, I know that realizing you’re not the only one can be very healing. Yesterday, I tried to express that on Twitter with this tweet:

If you think that’s confusing, you’re not the only one. If you think that’s clever, you’re not the only one. No matter what you think, feel, or do about anything, you’re not the only one.

If you’re thinking that statement doesn’t capture how unique each one of us is, you’re not the only one.

If you’re afraid or not afraid of heights, you’re not the only one.

If you like accumulating possessions or you don’t, you’re not the only one.

If you like cats or you don’t, you’re not the only one.

Do any of my other images today remind you that you are not the only one?

Whatever you think about the Daily Bitch, you’re not the only one.

If you thought of this song while reading this post, you’re not the only one.

If you want a live version of “Not the Only One” by Bonnie Raitt, guess what?

If you can’t imagine seeing another live concert again in the company of that many people, you’re not the only one there, either.

Does it help to know you’re not the only one?

I’m grateful knowing that I’m not the only one, thanks to you!

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Day 2222: Notice connections

Yesterday, in a therapy group where I notice connections among people, I did a mindfulness exercise using these mindfulness cards:

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Most of the people in the room took their time noticing the different cards and choosing one they felt a connection with.  The two people who were left-handed (including me) randomly chose a mindfulness card without looking.   I noticed that connection and then  noticed the card I had randomly pulled:

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Then, I noticed color connections between that card and my water bottle:

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I notice, here and now, that  I’ve used the word “connections” only twice before in a blog title. If you want to make connections with those older blog posts (both written in my first year of making connections on WordPress), you can connect to them here and here.  I also notice that the first blog post that popped up in my “connections” search was Day 1002: What makes anxiety worse?   Because I notice that  connections often reduce anxiety,  I wonder what connections WordPress noticed there.

I  notice connections between the word “older” (which you may notice I used in my previous paragraph) and negative judgments.  I’m especially noticing that connection two days before I turn 66.

I also notice connections between my reading the news and my anxiety getting worse, so I am careful to notice  news items that help restore and reconnect  my faith in humankind, including this one:

Quincy Police rescue tiny owl from roadside

QUINCY — It appears as if Quincy Police has its very own Dr. Dolittle.

Officer Tim Kaes helped a rescue a small saw-whet owl Tuesday night on Victory Road just before 7 p.m. This is the third owl that Kaes has helped rescue.

A person found the injured owl and flagged down a police cruiser, according to Quincy Police Sgt. Karyn Barkas. With animal control off for the night, the officer called in Kaes who Barkas said loves animals.

The owl was brought to the New England Wildlife Center in Weymouth for treatment.

New England Wildlife Center Executive Director Katrina Bergman said that Kaes had just brought in an injured hawk last week that was trapped in the Quincy Center MBTA station. She called Kaes the “slighted animal hero of the South Shore.”

Bergman said the saw-whet appeared to have been hit by a car and has a severe concussion. The small owl, common to the area, was in a bird head trauma protocol, similar to one for humans. If the animal survives its injuries it will be released back into the wild.

The Audobon Society says the bird gets its name from the call it makes, which is supposed to sound like a saw being sharpened against a whetstone. The bird is one of the smallest owl species.

I notice connections with people like Quincy officer Tim Kaes and phrases like “the slighted animal hero of the South Shore.”  I notice connections between expressed appreciation and being less slighted, so I hope Tim Kaes notices and connects to that news article.

Do you notice connections in any of my other recent photos?

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I notice connections between being near the water and feeling better.

I notice many connections in the song “Connections” by OneRepublic (who notice connections between their music and the Beatles, U2, M83, and Prince).

I notice connections between gratitude and positive growth, so thanks to those who helped me notice the connections in this post and — of course! — to YOU, for all the connections you notice.

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