They say that good things come to those who wait. I guess I’ll have to wait a little bit longer for the USA to do a good thing and elect its first woman President.
I can’t wait to thank all those who help me wait, including YOU!
The more you take the risk of sharing, the more you realize that you are definitely not alone. Therefore, consider sharing your thoughts and feelings in a comment, below.
You are definitely not alone if you are feeling gratitude, here and now.
While I wouldn’t go so far as to fake my own death, I definitely avoid small talk whenever I can. Personally, I prefer talk about medium and big topics.
Today, I don’t have time for too much talk of any size on this blog, because I need to rush off to the second of two retreats this weekend where I get to talk with and about other group therapists, who loom very big in my mind.
Also, I have big feelings about even small time changes, so I’m doing my best to adjust to gaining an hour while also losing Daylight Savings Time. No matter how much I talk about this, these time changes don’t seem to change. (Although I believe that U.S. Presidential candidate Pete Buttigieg has talked about getting rid of these disruptive time changes.)
During the first year of this blog, I published two posts about attention (here and here). If you give those early posts attention, you might notice how my blog has changed. These days, I give more attention to photos, like this.
I also give attention to
books,
interesting architecture,
food,
singing,
people,
work,
not being late (which I dreamed about last night, and
While I’ve written posts with “change” in the title before (here, here, here, here, here, here,here, and here), I’ve never created a post simply called “Change.”
Today, that’s going to change.
It’s appropriate that change is happening today, because:
while I was asleep last night, there was a time change,
I’m hoping for a major change at work,
I’m taking a break this weekend from my job, where I help people make positive change,
my son Aaron submitted his first college application yesterday, which may change his life,
as my boyfriend Michael wrote to me over five years ago (before the day we made the change to meet in person), “Things just change, regardless. No static spot to stand on this planet, that’s for sure.”
Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.
– George Bernard Shaw
When we are no longer able to change a situation – we are challenged to change ourselves.
– Victor Frankl
Change before you have to.
– Jack Welch
Never believe that a few caring people can’t change the world. For, indeed, that’s all who ever have.
– Margaret Mead
The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance.
– Nathaniel Branden
Sometimes it’s the smallest decisions that can change your life forever.
– Keri Russell
Just when I think I have learned the way to live, life changes.
– Hugh Prather
Things don’t have to change the world to be important.
– Steve Jobs
I hope everyone that is reading this is having a really good day. And if you are not, just know that in every new minute that passes you have an opportunity to change that.
– Gillian Anderson
At this time of the year, when the days get dark earlier, I think a lot about dark and light.
Here are some quotes about dark and light:
Light can only be understood with the wisdom of darkness.”
― Ka Chinery, Perceptions from the Photon Frequency
“For every item that carries the darkness of humanity there’s one that holds the light. And that light is worth believing in. Not just in others, but in yourself as well.”
― C.M. Rayne, The Forbidden Land of Andara
The Value of Sun shine is just because of the existence of Darkness
-“Samar Sudha”
― Samar Sudha
“Harmony will prevail. After darkness, there will be light. The light cannot come without the darkness. Better days are bound to come now.”
― Sook Nyul Choi, Year of Impossible Goodbyes
“It’s not what you have on the outside that glitters in light, it’s what you have on the inside that shines in the dark.”
― Anthony Liccione
“I have learned things in the dark that I could never have learned in the light, things that have saved my life over and over again, so that there is really only one logical conclusion. I need darkness as much as I need light.”
― Barbara Brown Taylor, Learning to Walk in the Dark
“When darkness falls, beauty is lit from within.”
― Johnathan Jena
“The light in your soul is far greater than the darkness. Shine your light.”
― Lailah Gifty Akita
“You know how to dance in sunlight when everything is going fine, but you have to learn to dance in darkness when the sun is gone and nothing is going well.”
― Therese May
I’m not afraid of dark chocolate, but I did ask for milk chocolate, yesterday, as a reward for my presentation about my therapy groups at work.
Thanks to Robert Cray, to Todd Rundgren, to Barbara McQueen (my esteemed fellow group therapist who brought me the milk chocolate), to people who bring light and dark into therapy, and to all those who hold both dark and light, including you!