Last night, I asked the question “What is your earliest memory?” in my Coping and Healing group. People said they found that very helpful. So, after the group, I asked the same question on Twitter.
My earliest memory is from before I was walking. I was outdoors and my sister was lying on the ground next to me. I remember wondering: “Why is she doing that? She can walk!” That memory stayed with me because my parents were posing us for a photo, and I kept seeing the photo of the two of us in the family album.
Even back then, I was asking questions.
Here are some of my not-so-early memories, captured in photos:
The Daily Bitch is very memorable.
One of my earliest memories of music is of my father listening — on a very old radio — to “Witchcraft” sung by Frank Sinatra.
Now I’m asking you: What is your earliest memory?
Thanks to all who have memories and to those who ask questions and answer them, including YOU!
As I’ve mentioned before, I have a fear of repeating myself.
Why? I’m wondering this morning.
What’s so bad about repeating things?
Especially since I talk to people, repetitively — in this blog and elsewhere — about how we humans tend to repeat and relearn important lessons, as we grow. (See my first post about that, here.)
Here’s an example of “good” repetitiveness:
When I really love a song, I want to play it, over and over again.
When I was a kid, I didn’t have the control to make that happen. When I loved a song, I would listen to the radio for days, wishing that it would play.
Yearning for that song. Waiting to hear it.
I first remember doing that, when I was very young, with this song:
I remember doing that, when I was about 13 years old, with this song:
Nowadays, if I want to listen to a song over and over again, I can! And yesterday, I did just that, with this tune:
At this point in this post, I wanted to tell you about another instance of helpful repetitiveness, but here’s what I’m thinking:
Geesh! “Repetitiveness” is such a difficult word to say and type. What’s another good word for that concept?
So, I just I looked for another word, and here’s something interesting, people! Most of the synonyms for “repetitiveness” are negative: